He said he didn’t know how to tell me and he thought that it would hurt me — and it did, dearly.
Some strategies to consider are, first, get the facts rather than being reactive.
I don’t want to lose him, but the baby will be here soon and I’m afraid that I will not have a place in his heart.
Or, what if he decides that he wants to be with the baby’s mother so he can have a family for his daughter? — A little Twitter Told Me I have been best friends with a girl for almost 20 years now.
And what you call a “red flag,” like the first flakes of an imminent snowstorm, I call an avalanche of signs that this guy is not trustworthy.
And if you’re someone who guards your trust to the point that you monitor your boyfriend’s every fucking digital move, I can’t believe you’d choose to ignore that your boyfriend seeks out women wanting “casual encounters” on Craigslist.